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Fri November 1, 2013
An Unconventional, But 'Perfect,' Path To Parenthood
Originally published on Fri November 1, 2013 10:18 am
Since childhood, Rami Aizic knew he "needed and wanted to be a dad." He assumed he would one day meet the girl of his dreams and it would all just happen.
Then he realized he was gay.
Robin Share also wanted kids, but had no partner. So when a mutual friend told Rami about Robin, he called her up and left a message: "Hi, Robin. I'm a friend of Scott's and he said you might be interested in having a baby with me. So give me a call back."
The two hit it off and began making plans — and then Robin met someone. It almost derailed the process, but a few weeks later, Robin knew he "wasn't Mr. Right."
Rami, Robin and their daughter, now 14, consider themselves a family. They don't live under one roof, but spend holidays and other important events together as much as possible.
"Do you ever have any regrets?" Rami asks Robin.
"Never," Robin says. "Couldn't be more perfect."
Audio produced for Morning Edition by Katie Simon.